Why
does a woman need to attract a man? Why should Chris Kumekucha publish such
nonsense on his serious blog?
Wake
up and smell the coffee. Your parents lived in the sixties and seventies and
swear to you that that it is the only way of life to aspire to. But the truth
is that we are in the year 2012 where Facebook and technology rule and where
women have a right to attract the right kind of men into their lives. Ignore
these truths at your own peril because the reality is that OTC and the Kenya
Bus Services no longer exist and neither is Daudi Kabaka the latest hit song in
town. Wake up!!!
And
you do not need to grudgingly read this article either… just get out of here
and read something else if you do not believe that this is important.
Attracting
guys starts with you understanding men a little better. Guys are creatures of
instinct and some of those instincts are pretty primitive and basic. Understand
them and take full advantage of them. A lion will see a juicy fat gazelle and
will remember that they are hungry and that is food hurtling at high speed
across the savannah grass and so they will act. A man is not very different
because he is first and foremost a visual creature. If they like what they see
they will act. The good news is that as a lady you can manipulate what they
see.
Many
ladies already know that if you do not have such a nice attractive face then
the thing to do is to wear a tight micro mini so that the attention of the man
will be on your nice thighs and by the time they get to your face it will not
matter too much. If on the other hand you have Kirinyaga Martha-Karua legs and
a model’s face then you need to carefully choose the right kind of trousers and
then enhance your looks with the right make up that brings out your best facial
features. There are plenty of great tips on the World Wide Web that will help
you dress to advantage and manipulate the visual effect on a man to your great advantage.
The other
thing you need to work on is your scent. Get a sensual scent that will drive
him crazy and don’t make any excuses about it. I have sat on the same table at
social gatherings with men who did not like what they saw but the minute the
woman came closer all was forgotten and forgiven and they were suddenly
extremely interested. I kid you not. And so it is worth the trouble testing
various scents with your workmates and colleagues until you arrive on the one
that will have him following you around like a dog on heat. Stick to that one
and watch the effect.
The
way to attract a man the first time you meet them is to talk very little. Let that
aura of mystery about you and who you really are linger on in his mind. If you
are rally excited about him control yourself. When it gets overwhelming excuse
yourself and go to the ladies to cool off. You must look cool an unaffected at
all times for the best effect.
But
you are allowed to smile and laugh a lot. Indeed this is vital in attracting a
man. Men hate the sulky brooding type who is much more likely to nag nag when
they get to know them a little better. Actually nothing attracts a man more
than a fun-loving woman full of laughter and knock-out smiles that make his
poor knees feel like jelly.
Never
give a man hints because he will never understand them in a thousand years.
Especially if he is on that dreadful Tusker thing they call a drink. Show him
red and he will immediately think of Arsenal Football Club and not the sensual
meaning of the colour that you are trying to get across. Tell him you are
feeling tired (hinting that you should get going) and he order some water for
you t chase away the sleep. Men #!!@#!
Instead
just tell him bluntly what you want. That will get a man really interested and
taking action right away. I know a very badly mannered lady who happens to be
my marketing advisor who has a habit of walking up to men and telling them the
craziest sexiest things. Personally I find it offensive but the truth is that
it ALWAYS works. ALWAYS!!
Dating
Men over 40
Experienced
women will tell you that there are a lot of very attractive things about older
men. They are much more caring and romantic and mostly possess the kind of
skills we cannot discuss in too much detail in this family oriented respectable
blog. Not to mention that they are usually much more financially stable
something that a woman’s basic instincts responds to very swiftly.
But
they are difficult to attract. They will mostly be very suspicious of strangers
who show any interest in them and could easily mistake you for the wrong kind
of lady.
This
is why your approach will need to be through his mind. Older men really get
turned on by intellectual women. And you do not need a doctorate to provoke the
intellect in older men. Thanks to a Mr Google a little research on your web
enabled phone in the toilet will impress the hell out of him when you get back
and start to discuss his pet subject so knowledgeably. And you do not need to
cram a lot of stuff into your tipsy mind because you can simply keep on asking
intelligent questions. This will never fail to attract the attention of an older
man and you will never again have a problem dating men over 40 when you have
mastered this technique.
