Hope that this brief note finds you okay and in high spirits despite the storm you are riding through at the moment.
What has really prompted me to write this letter is the self-righteous attitude those who are eager to give you unsolicited advice seem to have.
They KNOW that you are wrong.
They KNOW that you should not get involved with the people you are involved with.
They KNOW that you are a spoilt brat.
Hell, reading the c*** they are writing I am convinced that they have all the answers. Only that I have lots of information in my possession that says different. Some of them have been involved in very questionable relationships, the only difference is that they never came out in the open and confessed their love/gold-digging activities.
The difference, Esther is that you came out and answered your critics by telling it as it is. You spoke the truth from your heart. You never bothered to get some smart PR people to advice you on how to spin your situation so that you would come out looking good in the eyes of the public.
Of course there is a possibility that others may be out to use you… it happens all the time (and who doesn’t get used now and then?) but that is beside the point here. Doesn’t everybody have a right to make their own decisions and mistakes/smart moves and learn from them without the whole world and especially people full of themselves trying to advice them. Really what these self-appointed advisors should do is remove the log from their own eyes before touching the spec in yours.
I offer no advice Esther because that is not what you need right now. I have my own thoughts on this whole saga and opinions but what I am sure of is that they are Not as prejudiced and self-serving righteous as those of others.
I offer encouragement. You are a very brave person. You have the right to be here like everybody else. You have the right to love who you want to love and to be with whom you want to be with. If those who know it all think different then in my humble view they should shove their opinions… you know where.
Have a nice day, girl.
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