By J. Keys
If you want to learn how to attract men and your current strategies aren't working, a good way to make men melt (yes, it is possible!) is to show them your vulnerable side. Hold on though, aren't women vulnerable in general? Not necessarily. Women might seem softer and kinder, but everyone hides their tender side. That's the sort of vulnerability I'm talking about that you have to show to your man if you want him to really fall for you. Of course, there's a right way and a wrong way to do it and doing it the wrong way will make you seem fake.
1. Why Men Love Vulnerability
Men consider themselves the protectors and providers. Always have, always will. It's just something that's inherent in our system that when we see something that we love, we want to jump in front of trains to protect them.
If you're having trouble getting a man to get closer to you, it could be because he doesn't feel like you need protecting. Showing how vulnerable inside thaws any man's stone cold heart.
2. How To Be Vulnerable
It's not about doing something like showing him pictures of you holding little kittens and puppy dogs. It will make you seem contrived and will probably turn him off for even thinking that would work on him.
It's about doing whatever you love doing that exposes your vulnerability and simply talking about it, or showing him one day. It takes guts too, which he will admire and will add on to the overall effect of attraction.
3. What Vulnerability?
Some of you might be saying, "I don't think I'm vulnerable... I don't do anything that would make a man melt..." you never know. Is there someone in your family that you love? Do you love animals? Are you passionate about a charity?
Any of these things can be used to show your vulnerable side. It doesn't have to show that you're soft it could just expose your raw passion for something, which also gets a man going.
If you want to learn how to attract men, showing your vulnerable side is a good strategy in reeling him in. My girlfriend (who is now my wife) did it to me by accident. I saw her washing her puppy. She didn't seem me watching her. It was more than enough to make me feel like I had to protect this girl who loved animals.
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