Why does a woman need to attract a man? Why should Chris Kumekucha publish such nonsense on his serious blog?
Wake up and smell the coffee. Your parents lived in the sixties and seventies and swear to you that that it is the only way of life to aspire to. But the truth is that we are in the year 2012 where Facebook and technology rule and where women have a right to attract the right kind of men into their lives. Ignore these truths at your own peril because the reality is that OTC and the Kenya Bus Services no longer exist and neither is Daudi Kabaka the latest hit song in town. Wake up!!!
And you do not need to grudgingly read this article either… just get out of here and read something else if you do not believe that this is important.
Attracting guys starts with you understanding men a little better. Guys are creatures of instinct and some of those instincts are pretty primitive and basic. Understand them and take full advantage of them. A lion will see a juicy fat gazelle and will remember that they are hungry and that is food hurtling at high speed across the savannah grass and so they will act. A man is not very different because he is first and foremost a visual creature. If they like what they see they will act. The good news is that as a lady you can manipulate what they see.
Many ladies already know that if you do not have such a nice attractive face then the thing to do is to wear a tight micro mini so that the attention of the man will be on your nice thighs and by the time they get to your face it will not matter too much. If on the other hand you have Kirinyaga Martha-Karua legs and a model’s face then you need to carefully choose the right kind of trousers and then enhance your looks with the right make up that brings out your best facial features. There are plenty of great tips on the World Wide Web that will help you dress to advantage and manipulate the visual effect on a man to your great advantage.
The other thing you need to work on is your scent. Get a sensual scent that will drive him crazy and don’t make any excuses about it. I have sat on the same table at social gatherings with men who did not like what they saw but the minute the woman came closer all was forgotten and forgiven and they were suddenly extremely interested. I kid you not. And so it is worth the trouble testing various scents with your workmates and colleagues until you arrive on the one that will have him following you around like a dog on heat. Stick to that one and watch the effect.
The way to attract a man the first time you meet them is to talk very little. Let that aura of mystery about you and who you really are linger on in his mind. If you are rally excited about him control yourself. When it gets overwhelming excuse yourself and go to the ladies to cool off. You must look cool an unaffected at all times for the best effect.
But you are allowed to smile and laugh a lot. Indeed this is vital in attracting a man. Men hate the sulky brooding type who is much more likely to nag nag when they get to know them a little better. Actually nothing attracts a man more than a fun-loving woman full of laughter and knock-out smiles that make his poor knees feel like jelly.
Never give a man hints because he will never understand them in a thousand years. Especially if he is on that dreadful Tusker thing they call a drink. Show him red and he will immediately think of Arsenal Football Club and not the sensual meaning of the colour that you are trying to get across. Tell him you are feeling tired (hinting that you should get going) and he order some water for you t chase away the sleep. Men #!!@#!
Instead just tell him bluntly what you want. That will get a man really interested and taking action right away. I know a very badly mannered lady who happens to be my marketing advisor who has a habit of walking up to men and telling them the craziest sexiest things. Personally I find it offensive but the truth is that it ALWAYS works. ALWAYS!!
Dating Men over 40
Experienced women will tell you that there are a lot of very attractive things about older men. They are much more caring and romantic and mostly possess the kind of skills we cannot discuss in too much detail in this family oriented respectable blog. Not to mention that they are usually much more financially stable something that a woman’s basic instincts responds to very swiftly.
But they are difficult to attract. They will mostly be very suspicious of strangers who show any interest in them and could easily mistake you for the wrong kind of lady.
This is why your approach will need to be through his mind. Older men really get turned on by intellectual women. And you do not need a doctorate to provoke the intellect in older men. Thanks to a Mr Google a little research on your web enabled phone in the toilet will impress the hell out of him when you get back and start to discuss his pet subject so knowledgeably. And you do not need to cram a lot of stuff into your tipsy mind because you can simply keep on asking intelligent questions. This will never fail to attract the attention of an older man and you will never again have a problem dating men over 40 when you have mastered this technique.